tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post2391093562314876467..comments2023-10-08T06:58:11.558-04:00Comments on bound by symmetry.: there are times life will rattle your bones...unaffectedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01847927139783349391noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-90047319047800176172012-01-14T07:53:12.005-05:002012-01-14T07:53:12.005-05:00I hate that there are days like that for you. I wi...I hate that there are days like that for you. I wish it could all be done so you can fully heal. I know there will always be an empty sad spot though. I miss you and love you lots. <3 Sending virtual hugs and love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-1405843682437623642012-01-13T13:37:53.816-05:002012-01-13T13:37:53.816-05:00Hi Kara,
Shrimpsey here. I have been following y...Hi Kara,<br /><br />Shrimpsey here. I have been following your blog for a couple of weeks now. I am so very sorry this is happening to you. Although I have not been in your shoes with battling infertility, when we were trying for our 2nd, it took a while, and I had a loss almost exactly like the one you are experiencing. I was 11 weeks along and going in for a 'dating' scan. No heartbeat. Frick. The feelings and thoughts you are having sound exactly like how I was feeling when I went through it. Its almost like you are lost in your own little world, and a times you feel not bad, and others just take your breath away. It was very awkward between me and my husband for a bit also, hard to explain. We were both greiving, but I think husbands just want us to feel better, and feel frustrated when there is nothing they can do to help. Although they also are hurt and grieving, I don't think they can really comprehend what it is like for us. I remember that once my beta was at 0 again, that is when I was finally able to start to try and put the peices back together and heal. I did not like the 'limbo' feeling between the loss of our baby and when we could try again. That was the worst part. I felt similar feelings of anger when seeing or hearing about others pregnancies and babies. My sister even gave birth about 4 weeks after my D&C, and she even used the name we had chosen as the middle name for her daughter despite us having a conversation about that name a few months earlier. That really stung at the time. She claims she didn't remember that was a name we chose. <br /><br />The only thing unfortunatly that helps heal this hurt is time.Time.Time. I am praying for you, and I pray that you and Buster get your rainbow baby very soon. There is a great website where you can order really nice jewelry to honor your little angel. I would like to share the link for you. This is my favorite peice ~ http://myforeverchild.com/store/WsDefault.asp?One=668<br /><br />Just take one day at a time lady. That is all you can do. Sending big virtual healing hugs, I am sorry 2012 has started out so crappy. Here is hoping there are good things coming in your future!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04157304752681885203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-64689173421142140822012-01-13T13:27:43.042-05:002012-01-13T13:27:43.042-05:00I hear you. Today is a hard day on this end too. I...I hear you. Today is a hard day on this end too. I'm hoping that the phone call gives you some insight as well as peace.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-77730333905217136852012-01-13T11:57:45.074-05:002012-01-13T11:57:45.074-05:00Hoping today is an okay day for you. Next Friday t...Hoping today is an okay day for you. Next Friday the 13th is my 2 year wedding anniversary so hoping the next one is a better one for you too!Kelitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12048284844555106124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-83846640094514937102012-01-13T11:05:35.742-05:002012-01-13T11:05:35.742-05:00My birthday is on the 13th, so every 6 years or so...My birthday is on the 13th, so every 6 years or something like that it falls on Friday the 13th, so I LOVE Friday the 13th =) Hoping today breaks the bad spell of the 13th for you!Jesicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320801593860983896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-48723905961426745242012-01-13T10:56:06.630-05:002012-01-13T10:56:06.630-05:00Here's hoping today isn't so bad. Friday t...Here's hoping today isn't so bad. Friday the 13th always brings smiles to my face but that's because my brother was born on a friday 13th and we're super close. Its funny how experiences and memories can shape what we think of a day. Here's to hoping that no matter what today isn't so bad and that hopefully next Friday 13th the trend definitely breaks.Mrs. Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02764630042494209537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-26083704599498192572012-01-13T10:31:17.338-05:002012-01-13T10:31:17.338-05:00I came across your blog through Stirrup Queens, an...I came across your blog through Stirrup Queens, and I am sitting with you in sadness. I don't know you, but I'm holding you in my heart. A year ago this week we had a very similar experience and the anniversary stings. If you place any stock in the idea of a crunchy granola "universal energy", I hope you are comforted knowing I am sending you wishes for healing and peace and comfort in the midst of this nightmare. I am so sorry for you and Buster both.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com