tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post305649887663244851..comments2023-10-08T06:58:11.558-04:00Comments on bound by symmetry.: and I'll find strength in painunaffectedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01847927139783349391noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-28035681012368472402011-07-27T09:36:22.430-04:002011-07-27T09:36:22.430-04:00I have been pondering giving up, but I don't t...I have been pondering giving up, but I don't think I can. What a great post - well said!!LisaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08662932656659080958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-88551909451587440162011-07-27T08:23:43.822-04:002011-07-27T08:23:43.822-04:00I think about this all the time- the what to do ne...I think about this all the time- the what to do next ?<br />I just wish there was a right answer some place.<br />thinking of you...cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-35781454474028694382011-07-26T23:10:33.757-04:002011-07-26T23:10:33.757-04:00Jen is totally right about it being an "angry...Jen is totally right about it being an "angry: song. Check out Ungodly Hour by The Fray for a TTC sad song when you're in the mood.Prairie Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00120059135715983181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-55139370809790498762011-07-26T21:23:34.707-04:002011-07-26T21:23:34.707-04:00PS: Have you heard "White Blank Page"? T...PS: Have you heard "White Blank Page"? THat's also my angry song! "A white blank page, and a swelling rage. Rage. You did not think when you sent me to the brink. To the brink". Love!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-19803397300823432082011-07-26T21:20:37.140-04:002011-07-26T21:20:37.140-04:00I absolutely LOVE Mumford & Sons and can say t...I absolutely LOVE Mumford & Sons and can say that this song is my absolute favorite by them. I call it my "angry" song. In fact, I had an "angry" moment in the car this morning and was blaring this song until I could hear nothing else. Please dont give up. It's soooo, sooo hard, but please dont give up. YOu are going to be the most amazing mother some day. Soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-2616673280080936132011-07-26T21:03:15.473-04:002011-07-26T21:03:15.473-04:00Keep fighting as long as you've got some fight...Keep fighting as long as you've got some fight left in you!meggolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04516705065671805455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-9980200907545652982011-07-26T20:57:34.110-04:002011-07-26T20:57:34.110-04:00Amen.Amen.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15143538582739356791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-54615234779290722752011-07-26T16:36:57.734-04:002011-07-26T16:36:57.734-04:00At some point, I think you just realize you can...At some point, I think you just realize you can't keep pushing yourself emotionally and physically, and you make a choice to step away. That doesn't have to mean away from becoming a parent, but away from the exhausting month-after-month drill. Maybe it'll be adoption, maybe it'll be taking a break for a year or two (ha! Can we even do that?), maybe it'll be looking into donors. I totally hear you, I'm kind of in this place myself. <br /><br />It's really important to remember that even if you don't get pregnant naturally and decide to move on (whatever that means for you), you have NOT failed. Have. Not. You're kind of a champion, really, after enduring all that you've been through. You're stronger (but probably more tired... ), but no less.Luciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16623807852918160664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-87418882520273346582011-07-26T14:43:12.319-04:002011-07-26T14:43:12.319-04:00It's so hard to determine when to keep fightin...It's so hard to determine when to keep fighting, and when to give up. Keep up the fight, until you can't anymore. You'll know when it's time to stop, until then just keep going, one day at a time. Hugs!Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-19769504072823087262011-07-26T14:39:16.669-04:002011-07-26T14:39:16.669-04:00I have a list of songs that have "struck a co...I have a list of songs that have "struck a cord" with me during our IF struggles. Sometimes it's a whole song, sometimes a couple of lines, sometimes just one line. The Cave has been on my list since last winter. I love that line (and I love the band). When I'm in the car alone I sing it as loud and with as much conviction as I can. It's a great anthem for me.Prairie Anonymoushttp://wouldntwish.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-73355330260833489282011-07-26T11:56:45.998-04:002011-07-26T11:56:45.998-04:00Stay strong and keep trying until you absolutely c...Stay strong and keep trying until you absolutely cant anymore!! Sending love and prayers your way!!Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16514089603921948705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-10919989205586516272011-07-26T10:08:57.197-04:002011-07-26T10:08:57.197-04:00Boy, everyone around me seems to write out just wh...Boy, everyone around me seems to write out just what I'm thinking.<br />It's awful that any of us have to even think these things.LisaLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17757636046520334259noreply@blogger.com