tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post8443016768389833085..comments2023-10-08T06:58:11.558-04:00Comments on bound by symmetry.: miseryunaffectedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01847927139783349391noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-87701327906454519312012-01-05T21:47:17.273-05:002012-01-05T21:47:17.273-05:00I am so very sorry for your loss :( People do say ...I am so very sorry for your loss :( People do say the most asinine things, often with good intentions but it doesn't carry through. I had so many comments after all my losses... I am sorry you're going through this, and so sorry that you lost this child. My thoughts are with you.AnotherDreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11487881766884178761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-22604559960382242412012-01-04T09:09:44.050-05:002012-01-04T09:09:44.050-05:00Kara, I have been following your story for the las...Kara, I have been following your story for the last few months with warmth and happiness in my heart, and to come on and read your most recent posts sends a knife of sadness through my whole body. I was truly very happy for you and Buster and I can only imagine what terrible sadness you must be feeling right now. I pray that you find peace with this situation and that you are surrounded by the love that you deserve.Alysonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-78932738563431708962012-01-04T07:04:50.797-05:002012-01-04T07:04:50.797-05:00I'm just so incredibly sorry Kara. I'm so ...I'm just so incredibly sorry Kara. I'm so incredibly sorry.Alycehttp://www.twoweekwait.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-67715020350677364742012-01-03T22:08:33.132-05:002012-01-03T22:08:33.132-05:00There aren't any words for how incredibly unfa...There aren't any words for how incredibly unfair this all is. Losing a baby that you never get to meet is awful in so many ways. It's the loss of all those hopes and dreams of the future you had for that little one. Add in infertility and this may be hell. I hope that you find yourself surrounded by love, support, and kindness in these coming days and weeks (and months and years in my case.)Rochellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09226024184305999010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-85777031166611247702012-01-03T22:03:41.116-05:002012-01-03T22:03:41.116-05:00I'm so sorry hun :( I hop you feel better soon...I'm so sorry hun :( I hop you feel better soon, I know that's easier said than done. I can't imagine how you feel right now, just wanted to say I'm thinking of you.Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00531270433999405167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-6591208656344224872012-01-03T20:32:23.325-05:002012-01-03T20:32:23.325-05:00I agree with the D & C. When we lost our first...I agree with the D & C. When we lost our first I truly feel doing it any other way would have killed me. Im praying for you and Buster. Im sorry hun. Please take time to heal. Screw work!Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16949663436588804786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-36824993869173334342012-01-03T19:46:44.042-05:002012-01-03T19:46:44.042-05:00I am so fricking sorry to read this - just caught ...I am so fricking sorry to read this - just caught up with whats happened. Takes me back too. My heart goes out to you both (all), gutted for youStinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15656595158457726802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-6856787726281969502012-01-03T19:21:42.347-05:002012-01-03T19:21:42.347-05:00I'm so sorry for your loss...you and your husb...I'm so sorry for your loss...you and your husband are in my thoughts! ((((HUGS))))Melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-59873916220886243972012-01-03T17:28:15.388-05:002012-01-03T17:28:15.388-05:00Reading this post made me go back to the day I was...Reading this post made me go back to the day I was told I was having a chemical pregnancy. I know it's not nearly as hard as seeing your babies heart beat one day and 3 days later, seeing nothing. But the pain of those words will never go away. I remember crying all day long off and on when we found out. As time goes on, the burn gets easier to deal with. Praying for peace for you and your husband. Wishing it would never have to happen to anyone, especially you.Shannon Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11329521056816448130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-7398777888933588262012-01-03T16:16:43.922-05:002012-01-03T16:16:43.922-05:00Wishing this wasnt happening to you..... :(Wishing this wasnt happening to you..... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-4742835740384996372012-01-03T15:26:11.317-05:002012-01-03T15:26:11.317-05:00I'm so, so very sorry. Praying for peace and c...I'm so, so very sorry. Praying for peace and comfort for you and thinking of you.Baby Hopeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12247685343284672194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-91867475275653798452012-01-03T14:17:53.195-05:002012-01-03T14:17:53.195-05:00While I understand why women do the D&C and I ...While I understand why women do the D&C and I also respect that Dr.'s like to control the situation with a D&C I did my miscarriage naturally at home and I would do it again in a heartbeat if I were to lose this pregnancy as well.<br />Read this on why I did it if you're at all interested in another option that doesn't involve more poking and prodding. A natural miscarriage has the lowest chance of infection as well as the lowest instance of residual tissue being left in the uterus.<br /><br />http://barnesbrennan.blogspot.com/2011/09/natural-vs-d.html<br /><br />No option is easy, I just know I got a lot of pressure to do a D&C and when it was all said and done I'm glad I opted out of it.Jesicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320801593860983896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-65284829301494897272012-01-03T13:07:02.223-05:002012-01-03T13:07:02.223-05:00This is so sad, there is nothing that I can say th...This is so sad, there is nothing that I can say that will make it better. Just know you're in my thoughts {hugs}.Mrs. Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02764630042494209537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-56499600502419020282012-01-03T12:59:58.196-05:002012-01-03T12:59:58.196-05:00I feel so sick for you right now. I am so sorry. 2...I feel so sick for you right now. I am so sorry. 2012 can still be a great year for you. You are so strong!Tiffany L. Hustedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153005951428699382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-68376372653610440352012-01-03T12:28:58.342-05:002012-01-03T12:28:58.342-05:00I wish I knew of something to say that would give ...I wish I knew of something to say that would give you comfort, but I know that nothing can do that for you right now. I'm so very sorry.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14101535107377688458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-69181026561597655312012-01-03T12:21:37.925-05:002012-01-03T12:21:37.925-05:00I ran across your blog through someone elses. Even...I ran across your blog through someone elses. Even though I don't know you just reading that post broke my heart. We all live in fear of that and I just wish I could give you a big hug or say something to make it all better. Just know that you are in my prayers and I am so sorry for your loss. :(Jonny and Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08753078434384482912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-19075438552834370842012-01-03T12:00:07.701-05:002012-01-03T12:00:07.701-05:00Im so sorry Kara. I think the D&C did help me ...Im so sorry Kara. I think the D&C did help me to move on. Praying for you!!!Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16514089603921948705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-70125278455319605432012-01-03T11:53:57.104-05:002012-01-03T11:53:57.104-05:00I have no words of wisdom that will help you throu...I have no words of wisdom that will help you through this difficult time. Just know that time heals all and though it doesn't feel like it now, you will survive this. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.Jesicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320801593860983896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-26735231615112113372012-01-03T11:52:16.499-05:002012-01-03T11:52:16.499-05:00I thought about you alot last night, and I'm s...I thought about you alot last night, and I'm so sad for you :( This hits so close to home for me, and I know exactly how you feel.. It's devastating.. I'm so sorry :(Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05968439043054047475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-57972124891366980822012-01-03T11:33:00.782-05:002012-01-03T11:33:00.782-05:00Kara I know there isn't anything that any of u...Kara I know there isn't anything that any of us can say to fully express our condolences. I have tears for you now and I'm sending a hug from a thousand miles away... I hope for a speedy recovery for you and your family - take comfort that there are so many that will remember your Little Angel!BBeenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-37806542883624092452012-01-03T11:23:04.769-05:002012-01-03T11:23:04.769-05:00I think the d&c is a good idea. It really help...I think the d&c is a good idea. It really helped me back in April. I hate the amount of pain you are in right now. You are in my thoughts. Praying for you. I just hate it so much for you. :(Aubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14534603162700547210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614900991111270710.post-25083446443386603572012-01-03T11:17:05.284-05:002012-01-03T11:17:05.284-05:00My heart is breaking for the pain you are experien...My heart is breaking for the pain you are experiencing right now. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts.Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.com