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Today marks four weeks since we received the devastating news.

I should be celebrating my graduation into the second trimester.

I should be starting to see a baby bump.

I should be pregnant.
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  1. ADSchillJanuary 30, 2012 at 6:17 PM

    I'm sorry. I know how you feel. I should be 35 weeks this week...almost full term.
    Do something for yourself and your baby this week. write something or make something. Everything helps just a little and you will feel stronger in time. I know because I am slowly getting there day by day.
    MissC

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  2. AshleyJanuary 30, 2012 at 6:24 PM

    Yesterday was 1 month since I received my bad news too...

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  3. dixiedarlingJanuary 30, 2012 at 6:28 PM

    This hits so close to home. Biggest hugs.

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  4. AnonymousJanuary 30, 2012 at 6:38 PM

    Just caught up reading your blog. So sorry for your loss. Big hugs.

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  5. CristyJanuary 30, 2012 at 6:49 PM

    I know and I'm so sorry. This isn't fair or right that you're currently living with this. I really wish it was otherwise. MissC's suggestion is a good one. Take some time to do something for yourself and your baby. In the meantime, I'm sending you a big hug.

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  6. AnonymousJanuary 30, 2012 at 7:32 PM

    Yes, you should be, and in a fair and just world, you would be. Just praying you will be soon again!

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  7. Baby HopesJanuary 30, 2012 at 7:39 PM

    I'm so, so very sorry. Thinking of you...

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  8. Mrs. HJanuary 30, 2012 at 7:44 PM

    I just don't have any words cause I know how much this hurts. {{Big hug}}

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  9. HattieJanuary 30, 2012 at 8:06 PM

    Sucks doesn't it? If I knew more comforting words I would share them. But in the words of michael Jackson, you are not alone.

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  10. DeniseJanuary 30, 2012 at 9:00 PM

    Big hugs to you. So sorry you are sad. Thinking of you.

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  11. Curly SueJanuary 30, 2012 at 9:04 PM

    ::hug:: I hear it gets easier as you get past the major milestones. I'm so sorry that things like this keep the wound raw and fresh :( I'll keep praying for you.

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  12. JessJanuary 30, 2012 at 9:37 PM

    <3 so sorry sweets! I write in a journal to my unborn and future babies. Thinking of you, and praying that God will give you a great blessing soon!

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  13. cdgJanuary 30, 2012 at 9:53 PM

    i am so sorry sweetie, sending you so much love

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  14. StinkyJanuary 31, 2012 at 1:46 AM

    'Should's mark the path through this, its so hard, love to you

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  15. AnonymousJanuary 31, 2012 at 1:59 AM

    I understand. I wish neither of us knew this pain. I am sorry that you have to go through this.

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  16. KandiceJanuary 31, 2012 at 8:38 AM

    I can give you hope in that one day the milestones will slow, but you will never forget certain dates. That's the part that really just sucks. Next month marks 3 years since I found out I was pregnant with my angel baby. I still think of that baby constantly. The would might have been. I pray for your healing! Life just isn't fair!

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  17. AubJanuary 31, 2012 at 9:43 AM

    <3

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  18. lisab/lisabttcJanuary 31, 2012 at 11:04 AM

    Hugs and Love <3

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  19. AllisonJanuary 31, 2012 at 1:06 PM

    ((((Hugs))))

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  20. AnotherDreamerJanuary 31, 2012 at 5:22 PM

    (*HUGS*) Thinking of you.

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  21. jill's infertility documentFebruary 1, 2012 at 12:28 PM

    You should, and it isn't fair. I was just thinking about these things for a moment the other day. They are difficult thoughts to have. All I can offer is a virtual hug. Know that I am reading and you are not alone.

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  22. PattyFebruary 1, 2012 at 3:09 PM

    So so sorry hunny. Its not fair and its exhausting going through this. Take care of yourself today. I prefer Lifetime movies, wine, and crackers and cheese for such occasions. <3

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  23. AnonymousFebruary 1, 2012 at 4:19 PM

    Hey Kara. tmcleland here.. Just wanted to pop in and say I am thinking of you! And hope everything is O.K.
    I can't believe life can be so cruel like this, don't woman have to deal with enough and to top it off.. this bullshit. I really pray that you guys get your thb soon, as someone so kind and caring like you deserves to be a mommy <3 and I know deep down you will! All the best!

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  24. AnonymousFebruary 1, 2012 at 9:54 PM

    I totally understand how you feel. I should be in my 3rd trimester right now....7 months. 6 months ago today I miscarried at 5 weeks. But instead I am busy getting ready to start seeing a new RE because it is going on 2 and a half years since we started TTCing. ((HUGS))

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